15 Questions Every Mom Should Ask Before Signing Up for Karate

Quick Take: Before you commit to trusting a dojo with your child, be sure to ask them these questions. Their responses will tell you everything you need to know about whether or not it's the right place for your family.

1. Do you run background checks on all instructors?

2. Do you drug test?

3. Have you ever suspected abuse? If so, how was it handled?

4. Do you have cameras in key areas?

5. Where do children change clothes?

6. What are the goals of your program?

7. Would you say your focus is more fun, tradition, or competition?

8. How do you define “respect” and “discipline”?

9. Do instructors have specific training with children?

10. How do you handle kids who are disruptive or uncooperative?

11. What kind of contracts do you use?

12. Are memberships month-to-month or year-long?

13. What happens if we need to cancel?

14. How do you handle refunds?

15. Can I get a list of references?

Pro Tips for Moms

• Pay attention not just to answers, but to reactions. Were they welcoming of your questions? Did they look concerned or uncomfortable about any questions? Defensive? Respectful? Dismissive?

• Check reviews carefully. While there are always those that will complain about even the best places and services, look closely at 1-star reviews; sometimes that’s where the truth hides.

• Trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. Be sure to talk about your experience asking these questions with likeminded mamas that share your values. (If you're confused or not sure what you gut is telling you - You're not alone! Join us in The Mama Bear Community for support)

Final Thought

Asking questions doesn’t make you “that mom.” It makes you your child's protector. Your child deserves a dojo that’s not just good at teaching karate — but safe, supportive, and aligned with your values.

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